
Purpose of this blog: reflect on the theme
In this touching book, Glass Castle, written by Jeannette Walls, exposes her true life by the lessons, adventures, and experiences that have brought on her and her family emotionally but also rewarding. The book starts out with mid 30’s Jeannette Walls in New York City sitting in a taxi through traffic. As she waits to go to one of her expensive, nice party, she looks at a homeless woman. She notices that it is her mother and can’t believe it is her. Her reaction was to hide so no one could know that they could actually be related. Her battles with accepting her mother being homeless are because her whole life was just moving around, no money, no structure in the family and struggles that came between them. While growing up in her uncontrolled environment, constant hardships and realities made her want more meaning in her life. From all of this, she has become a successful, stable, hardworking and intelligent writer. In the end, at Thanksgiving we see the Walls family reunite, always a heart-warming time. When Jeannette’s stepdaughter says Jeannette’s mom “laughs just like you do” (5.1.15), Jeannette realizes that she will always be a little bit like her mom, no matter how far she runs and how much she changes. The book ends with a toast that warms the heart. Mom says, “Life with your father was never boring” (5.1.25), and the family shares funny father stories. Probably not the stories where he nearly killed them, or the stories of defending his own mother after sexually assaulting his son. The positive is the focus of the family. We think that’s how they survived this long. Overall everything was really satisfying for me. I wouldn’t make any changes because it is a real story. I want it to be real as it is.
One of the major themes in this novel is the real meaning of the word Family. The Walls family in The Glass Castle is more similar to a voyaging carnival than the Family Circus. We’re talking broken. With Mom and Dad as the instigators, the family bums around the country…and, oh yeah, did we mention that they’re a family of bums? Mother and Dad don’t understand that one day, the children will get mature enough to know better and will begin to search for something different. “I am your mother, and I should have a say in how you’re raised.” (2.1.26) This is when Jeannette blames Mom for not acting like a mother. Mother doesn’t have a desire to raise her own children—she lets Jeannette cook at three years of age, for the sake of “good” —until another person does child rearing for her. Possibly she feels regretful. One other example is “Mom felt that Grandma Smith nagged and badgered, setting rules and punishments for breaking the rules. It drove Mom crazy, and it was the reason she never set rules for us.” (2.21.2) Mom appears to be the way she is because she’s determined to be her own mother’s exact opposite. Having said that, it sure takes a long time for Mom to mature, herself …
Families frequently stick together, for better or for more terrible, yet the Walls family falls into the “more awful” class. Together, these relatives hurt themselves more than they help themselves. Maybe some families are better off apart. Their parents treat other things better than their own children. For example, “I believed she thought of her paintings as children and wanted them to feel that they were all being treated equally.”(3.6.30). If Mom treated her paintings as kids, she would put them in a box of cardboard and let them fend for themselves. Mom is actually treating her paintings better in some ways than she is treating her own children. What about her priorities?







